Posts tagged relationship
Relationship as a Catalyst for Spiritual Growth

It is always easier to be centred, zen, grounded and present when you are alone, when there is no one else there to disturb your peace. It is always easier to be authentic, to be truthful when you are alone, when you don't have to consider anybody else's feelings or opinions, and you can say or do whatever you want. Sometimes things just seem to be much easier when you are alone than being in partnership with someone.

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You Attract What You Are

The law of attraction is the constant law of the Universe. ou are who you attract. Everything is energy; everything is vibration. If you feel your current partner is not satisfactory, or you can't attract an ideal partner, then perhaps it is wise for us to look within instead of constantly seeking outside. Our partner often acts as a mirror. Through our partner, we can understand ourselves better. When you complain
the other is not good enough, first, observe your own thoughts:think about why I attract this particular person, or this particular kind of relationship into my life in the first place. 

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The Dream (Osho Zen Tarot)

Some enchanted evening you are going to meet your soulmate, the perfect person who will meet all your needs and fulfill your dreams. Right? Wrong! This fantasy that songwriters and poets are so fond of perpetuating has its roots in memories of the womb, where we were so secure and "at one" with our mothers; it's no wonder we have hankered to return to that place all our lives. But, to put it quite brutally, it is a childish dream. And it is amazing we hang on to it so stubbornly in the face of reality. Nobody, whether it's your current mate or some dreamed-of partner in the future, has any obligation to deliver your happiness on a platter - nor could they even if they wanted to. Real love comes not from trying to solve our neediness by depending on another, but by developing our own inner richness and maturity. Then we have so much love to give that we naturally draw lovers towards us. 

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Why Conventional Marriage is Not For Me

Marriage is a topic I despise openly. To speak negatively against marriage does not mean that I am against love. I am actually 100% for love but 100% against the social construct of marriage. I understand my views can be quite different from most people and there are people who are happily married and found the marriage system has worked for them. I respect those who follow the conventional path and found it worked, so this article is probably not for everyone. This article is written for those (especially women) who are not willing to settle down according to society's prescriptions.

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